Intimacy Mentoring
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The way a man penetrates the world should be the same way he penetrates his woman: not merely for personal gain or pleasure, but to magnify love, openness, and depth.
— DAVID DEIDA
MY VISION
A feminine woman is a man's greatest teacher.
She feels what no book can teach you.
When you are present, and when you are not.
When a man can own his own shit, she can trust him and open fully to him
In this openness, she brings you everything.
Her beauty, her warmth, her radiance.
And her truth, even when it is hard to hear
Your job is to meet her there,
fully, moment by moment,
every single day.
That is where the growth is.
That is where I support you.
MENTORING WITH ME IS FOR YOU IF YOU...
Are already working on your presence — and want to embody it more fully in your relationship
Feel disconnected from your partner even when you're right next to her
Want to deepen the polarity and aliveness between you and your woman
Are looking for the right woman and want to show up fully when you meet her
Want to meet and open your woman in a away you never have before
Want to embody real masculine and feminine embodiement
Sense there is a next level of depth available in how you love her
Are ready to bring more of yourself, even your darkness, into your intimacy
MENTORING WITH ME IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
You are looking for simple techniques to seduce women
You are not willing to look at your own patterns
You want to change your woman or make her 'easier'
You expect results without real inner work
WHAT I WORK ON WITH YOU
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Realizing your true nature through self-investigation
Discovering what your deepest purpose is together
Looking at the wounds and barriers that hold you back
Accessing your darker parts, to broaden your human range
How every session works
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Listen
We start with what is alive in you. What is happening in your life, body and relationship.
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Reflect
Together we look beneath the surface. At the pattern, the block, the area of growth.
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Illuminate
We work with the teachings of Deida and others to deepen our understanding and insight.
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Integrate
You leave with a clear direction; a practice, a next step. Something that will make a difference.
Mike
ter Meulen
LIFE MENTOR
MEDITATION TEACHER
NON-DUAL PRACTICE
DAVID DEIDA LINEAGE
KORTRIJK, BELGIUM
When I was fifteen, my father took his own life. I had no choice but to grow up — fast, and from the inside out.
I had to learn how to feel. How to cry. How to sit with loss without running from it. That process opened something in me that has never closed since.
From there, I immersed myself in daily meditation, Taoist and tantric practice, and the work of David Deida. None of it came easily. There were years of confusion and falling short. What defines my practice is not that it has always been graceful — but that every day, I choose it again.
I choose love over closing down. Openness over protection. I am building a life with my partner Karen, who is my mirror and greatest teacher.
That is what I bring into my work. Not perfection. But a man who has walked through real difficulty — and keeps choosing, every day, to stay open.
"A relationship is one of the most powerful vehicles for awakening that exists. I help couples use it that way — not to be comfortable together, but to be more fully alive together."
— MIKE TER MEULEN
READY TO WORK WITH ME?
You are well on the path.
Take the next step towards depth, purpose and love
You already sense what is possible. This mentoring is for the man who is ready to stop circling the edge of his own depth — and step fully into it. Into his purpose, his presence, and the life he knows is his.